the story behind this is i was trying to wait for my friend to come back and some south korean girl took my friend's empire and didnt give it back. so i just prepared since she was spamming so much shit near my border (i had 24k artillery in madrid and lots of ships lol) and she started losing so much. i lost the iberian penisula but still had my colonies and both of our war exhausts and stability were so bad that our lands starting declaring independence. i tried white peacing but do you really expect her to do that? no of course not, but nonetheless she still played and then finally left later.
so what can you learn from this? learn how to play the game and dont just spam crap like a qing dynasty player. oh yeah and the game was super laggy obviously
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